Showing posts with label Delhi. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Delhi. Show all posts

Monday, 22 January 2018

Perfect Timing

At precisely 2 in the afternoon, when the sun was soaking all the hydration from Saachi’s body, she gave the pushed open a wooden door that gave the bell overhead a tug. Even before she had let go of the knob, the chef greeted from behind the display of fresh-out-of-the-oven confectionaries.

“Hey, right on schedule! I’ve just baked a batch of the Danish.” Tanya, the owner of the tiny, hole-in-the-wall cafĂ© flooded with natural light, untied the knots of her apron and glided to the door in her pale yellow dress to hug her friend.

“Hey, yourself! I need a quick cold coffee and I’ll be out of your hair,” Saachi answered as she took a seat at a table close to the floor-to-ceiling window that had the uninspiring view of the parking lot.

“Ha! This is the slowest time of the day. No one comes in before 5. Wait, I’ll get you some coffee.” There wasn’t much ground to cover—just one room where all pastries and breads where kept, a cash counter and a kitchen at the back that no one but the staff was allowed to enter (Tanya and her two helpers). The tall, slender woman with a pixie haircut brought back with a tray with a glass of iced coffee, four warm chocolate seasalt cookies, and a croissant, and set it on the table.






Sasha smiled at the woman five years her senior. Dressed in her comfort jeans and shirt with her hair in the bun, she looked like she was going to college, but her boss didn’t mind the casualwear. He was happy on the days she reported to work. The younger woman had 15 minutes to talk to her new friend who always had flour somewhere on her face.

“I love the foundation,” Sasha told Tanya as the two got comfortable on the armchairs.

“I’m not wearing—Oh wait, I got flour on my cheeks again?” Tanya asked as she tried wiping off the marks with her left hand that had burning marks on at least five different places. Baking incident.

Sasha gave her a toothy grin and feasted on the chocolate treat. “I have precisely 10 minutes to spare.” She took a sip and then another mouthful.

“Why are you always in such a hurry? For once, you can sit back and enjoy it.”

“She’s timing me.” She told her in a conspiratorial tone.

“What? Who?” Tanya enquired curiously as she buttered her croissant.

“My mother.” Sasha answered settling back against the chair again. Two down, two to go, she thought as she counted the cookies. No wonder I have gained two kilograms in the past two weeks since I’ve met her.

“She times you?” She asked horrified.

Looking at her wide-eyed expression, Sasha had to keep the cookie down. It was comical. “Yeah, she watches the clock like a hawk after I leave for home.”

With a laugh, she continued, “I work for my Dad, just around the corner from here. He doesn’t need me; he has 10 employees that can do what I do way better, which is basically answering some emails and basic marketing for this catering business. But we are indulging each other until I find a better way to use my MBA.”

She paused to take another sip while the older woman with a degree in hospitality and five years experience at a five-star sat nodding her head.

“So anyway, it takes my dad precisely one hour and 23 minutes to make the drive from Hauz Khas to Sohna Road, where we live. Now consider these two things: He leaves at 7pm in the evening and drives at a speed of 50 even on the highway.”

“But what does that have to do with anything?”

“It takes me 45 minutes to make the journey.”

“How?”

“I only come to work for four hours everyday. I leave after lunchtime and it’s light traffic. And let’s face it, I’m a faster driver.”

“And your mom has a problem with that?” She thinks my sweet mother is a cantankerous old fossil, Sasha laughed at the thought.

“I wouldn’t call it a problem. It’s more like an obsession. The moment I leave home, my dad calls my mom because it is grilled into him every morning that he absolutely cannot forget. Then mom stares at the clock. If I’m there in 55 minutes, it starts with “You were speeding,” and ends in tears. Hers.”

The first time it happened, it caught her completely by surprise. Her mother was standing by the standing, the car had given away her arrival, and waiting on her with worried eyes. And then the grilling had started.

“Oh, no!”

“At first, I didn’t realise it was a conspiracy against me. But it was happening everyday and I caught on the pattern. So, I started making pitstops three weeks ago.”

It had been her third day at the office when she marched into her father’s cosy but functional office to tell him she was leaving. On her way to the car, she realised she had forgotten to her him about an email and rushed back in to find him ratting on her.

“When you first entered here?” Tanya prompted.

“I already had checked out some shops in the past week and I hadn’t picked anything up. I didn’t want to go in again for browsing so I climbed the stairs to your cafe.”

“That’s why you look at the wall clock so much!”

“I don’t want to break my winning streak. It’s important to my mother, and honestly, better than reasoning with her.”

Tanya chuckled, thinking about her older brother’s wise words: You can’t have a rational argument with your parents. It’s impossible!

They talked longer than Sasha had anticipated. She stood up to thank her friend, paid the bill through her phone, and tapped the jeans pocket for her car keys. Then, she was on the way home.

What she had failed to mention to Tanya was her near-death accident a year ago that had put her on bedrest for two months. The next eight were painful, too, with physiotherapy as she started claiming her body back. If not for her mom’s strength and support, she would have lost all hopes of recovery and gone into despair. It has been just a month of working for her dad for shorter periods, but driving and sitting was as much as she could bear right now.

As she rounded up her home 10 minutes later than usual, her mother was standing by the door, waiting for her to come up.

“You got late today, Sasha?”

“Yeah, mom. There was some traffic on the road.”

And with that, the worry lines disappeared from the retired nurse’s forehead and everything was peaceful in her world once again.





 

Sunday, 6 January 2013

Not 'Just' A Girl


I dream of an India where mothers don’t teach daughters that they are responsible for maintaining their homes. I dream of an India where a girl gets to decide whether or not a she wishes to marry; where she can have an opinion; where she has the right to dream. I dream of an India where man is not the beast; where I can walk without fear; where I am not scared; where I can be myself without inviting acid attacks, rapes and reproach from the society.  

But it doesn’t exist. This does.

Mohan Bhagwat, RSS Chief: “Crimes against women happen in India and not in Bharat."
"Theory of contract, theory of social contract, a husband and wife are bound by a contract which says 'you (woman) look after the household chores and satisfy me, I (man) will take care of your needs and will protect you', and until she delivers her duties without fail, he keeps her on the contract and if she fails to honour the contract, he disowns her and if it is the same with the husband who is not honouring the contract, she can also abandon him and go for a new contract then."

Vijaywargiya, Minister, Madhya Pradesh: "Only when Sitaji crossed the Lakshman rekha, she was kidnapped by Ravan...If Sitaji (woman) crosses the Lakshman rekha, then 'Sitaharan' (crime against them) is bound to take place as Ravans are out there."

Abhijeet Mukherjee, Pranab Mukherjee’s son and MP: “I can see many beautiful women among them - highly dented-painted - they're giving interviews on TV, they've brought their children to show them the scenes. I have grave doubts whether they're students, because women of that age are generally not students."

Mulayam Singh Yadav, Former CM: "Only girls and women from affluent class can go forward. Remember this, you (rural women) will not get a chance. Our rural women did not have that much attraction."

Om Prakash Chautala, Former CM: “The Mughal sultanate in this country used to misbehave with women... to prevent that, people started getting their young girls married early so that no one did anything wrong to them… currently a similar situation is arising in the state.”

Dharamvir Goyat, Haryana Pradesh Congress committee (HPCC) member: "If we go into the details of rape cases and abductions, it is found that victims and accused in 90% of cases are runaway couples. So the cases are consensual."

Sheila Dixit, CM, Delhi: "All by herself till 3 am at night in a city where people believe...you know...you should not be so adventurous.''

Shushil Kumar Shinde, Home Minister (to Jaya Bachchan): "This is a serious matter. This is not the subject of a film."

Sharad Yadav, Janata Dal United: "Only certain women who lived in cities like Delhi and Lucknow would benefit who are nothing but "par kati auraten'' (women with short hair)."

Sanjay Nirupam, MP (to Smriti Irani): “Till recently you were shaking your hips on TV for money, and now suddenly you have become a political analyst.”

Muqtar Abbas Naqvi, Vice President, BJP: “Some women wearing lipstick and powder have taken to the streets in Mumbai and are abusing politicians and spreading dissatisfaction against democracy. This is what terrorists are doing in Jammu and Kashmir.”

Mamata Banerjee, CM, Kolkata: "Earlier if men and women would hold hands, they would get caught by parents and reprimanded but now everything is so open. It's like an open market with open options."

Sushma Swaraj, BJP: “Rape victims are living dead.”

Tuesday, 11 December 2012

Get A Life!

To begin with, I’d just like to thank TOI for making my week. Ever since they started their Get A Life campaign, I have been almost hopeful. Well done, guys! As a matter of fact, this post is completely for them.

Those who know me, know that I don’t want to live in this country. Above and beyond, the reason is the sick mentality of men who think we are sex objects living to give them pleasure. If my own experiences on the road were not enough, I found the scary neighbor – newspapers. I won’t even begin with all the rape stories I read in the newspapers but safe to say, it is all very disturbing. Do I want to live in the country where even 3 year olds get raped? Unlikely. So yes, the first chance I get, I’m out of here. There is no way to change mindset of the public who blames the victim; the ministers who say girls shouldn’t be wearing inappropriate clothes or getting out of the house after 8 pm. May be they should teach some values to men but eh, they have testosterone and that’s enough in this country. I was born unlucky; ergo I have to suffer.

All men may not think that way. But I can bet my life on this – most of them do. They may not grope women but they do pass comments, call them ‘maal’ and sing cheap songs. What is this Munni-Shiela anyway? Don’t we have enough problems that Bollywood is adding up more to the lot? Stop with these songs already. They are demeaning, derogatory and IDIOTIC! This is not artistic; this is simply being oblivious to the issues we are facing as a nation. Are you guys dense or something? Portray women as strong and independent, not as sex objects you morons!

What TOI is doing is a beginning. If all the newspapers pick up the cause, people might wake up! They just might. May be then we will feel safe in this country.